can anyone out there help me i desperately need 5000 dollars to catch up some past do bills and pay off several cash advances. My husband does not knoow about any of this and i cannot tell him for fear that he will leave me and take the boys. I made a huge mistake in our checkbook and before i was able to catch it the damage was done, now my only hope is to obtain the money to fix it and catch up. I would have been able to do this however about three months ago I was let go from my job and it took me nearly two months to find a new job it is a better job with better pay but getting caught up is almost impossible. please help